Sometimes it seems like you’re the only person without a date, doesn’t it? Whether you’ve just come off of a long relationship, recently moved to a new area, or just decided it’s time to make some interesting friends after being immersed in your work or schooling, you just might be looking around and thinking, “WTF?” It is highly ironic that in this age of instant communication via the Internet and satellites, simple communication between one person and another has become incredibly complicated. Many people are taking advantage of today’s technology and are using phone dating lines to find other people for romantic relationships.
Yes, today it is possible to go online, read a quick description, and then listen to voice personals. This is so much better than just a cold ad in some free newspaper, where all you get are printed words and no flavor of who wrote them. It’s better than immediately meeting a person in real life and then searching for something – anything to say back to them that doesn’t sound stupid or creepy. In a way, you can architect your persona.
Check out some of these websites and see if you don’t agree that they offer the best of both worlds to internet dating. If your anything like me then you’re probably raring to call into a chat line and record your own voice personal right now. Hold on though, lets discuss what it is that you are going to say to make the biggest impact on someone that you just might find to be scintillating. Just like meeting someone face to face, you’ll want to give a good impression through your voice chat personal. If your going to be introducing yourself to who knows how many people on these voice chat lines – let’s discover some ways to make your personals memorable and self flattering first.
First of all, know what you’re going to say! Just winging your local phone personal could be brilliant, but it could also be full of “uhs”, “ums”, and long silences. Try writing down what you’d like to say about yourself. Don’t rehearse too much though, or you could sound like a machine. Leave a little breathing room, know the main points and characteristics that you are trying to convey and then let your personality fill in the gaps.
Describing ourselves is not always the easiest task. If you are having trouble with a description, try listing things about yourself. Make a list of some of your positive traits. Have you been told you have a nice smile? Write it down. Do you think you have a good sense of humor? Write that down as well. Are you generous? Then by all means make it known. Don’t be afraid to brag about your awesomeness. Humility is a great trait, just as self sufficiency and confidence are also great characteristics.
Don’t forget to quickly express your true physical traits. Commonly people will provide listeners with their eye color, hair color, body type, and height. Don’t spend a lot of time talking about yourself though. Just lay out your physical stats quickly and move on to the next topic of your personal. Spend the majority of your time filling the personal with information on what you are looking for in a partner. This isn’t the time to be coy, how will you get what you want if you don’t ask for it? Know what you want, and write it down.
Time to record your phone personal! Relax. Breathe deeply, calm your nerves, and smile. You want to sound friendly, and you can’t do that all tied in knots. Maybe drink a glass of wine beforehand, but don’t over due it. Sound happy, not sloppy drunk. Don’t try to sound “sexy”. When most people try, they come off sounding like they’ve got a sore throat or a bellyache. Speak with your god given tone as if you were talking to a best friend.
With a little inventiveness and a sense of humor, you can create a voice personal that will leave others wanting to know more. A little intrigue can go a long way. Now…onwards! Take action and improve your dating life now. Here is hoping you meet someone just as intriguing and inventive as yourself! Best luck.